Love, Loss, and What We Ate: A Memoir

Needless to say there will be celebrity reviews and opinions galore in the coming days for this heartfelt memoir, and the unfortunate side effects of possible sanctimonious scorn as well. She completely nails the traditions, customs, nuances, the little quirks and endearing qualities that are inherent to the orthodox Tamil Brahmin (Tambrahm) community . It may seem quaint & amusing to the celebrity circles she moves in, but a proud reality and tradition to Padma, and reading that is an inspirational validation for those 'regular' folks that have made the transition to being American.

As a food blogger focused on the same cuisine Ms. Lakshmi grew up with and still cherishes, my primary reason for purchase was the 'What we ate'. As I put my device away after being transfixed to the book, I realize this memoir had fed me something more deep - an inspiration to swim against the tide , churn the waters & rise with determination above the painful chapters and aspects of life's journey. Be true to your inner self, casting away the chains of 'culture' and myopic social mores. And yet, in the end still retain the pure, the innocent and happy aspects of the environment that brings oneself to their present juncture in life.
And yes, there's always a bowl of Thayir sadham at the end of the day to savor